what i find attractive in a partner in general is someone who carries themselves confidently...excels in communication n expression....can laff freely n loudly...bringz a sense of adventure to life...doesnt do mood swingz n has a positive overall outlook...is able to take thingz serious when need be but knows that there is much fun to be had in life as well....takes care of themselves n shows genuine concern for otherz in tha world besides jus themselves.....not caught up in tha material aspect of life but can appreciate tha lil thingz that make momentz n memories special....has goofy/looney/dorky elementz to their personality...why i gotta be tha only one? lol....and is happy with who they n proud of where they from n sure of where they goin in life.....thatz a few